http://gaysexuality.blogdrive.com/ Gay Sexuality Wed, 13 Dec 2006 21:25:02 PST http://www.blogdrive.com Copyright 2006. Relationships http://gaysexuality.blogdrive.com/archive/6.html Tue, 21 Feb 2006 21:26:24 GMT It's absolutely normal to be curious about pornography and to explore your body and sexuality, and there's nothing wrong with it. Exploring your sexuality can make you feel a whole host of emotions, including excitement and guilt - again, this is perfectly normal. Just because you like looking at gay porn doesn't necessarily mean you're gay. Seeing other people engaged in sexual acts is a turn-on for many, whether it's man/woman, woman/woman or man/man. Lots of straight men and women like looking at lesbian porn, for example. It's all part of discovering your sexual identity and learning... (more) http://gaysexuality.blogdrive.com/comments?id=6 http://gaysexuality.blogdrive.com/archive/5.html Wed, 01 Feb 2006 20:57:41 GMT AIDS AND DATING AIDS, in my opinion, is the most terrible thing in the world!! Sex has become dangerous. I am HIV positive. AIDS has provided new reasons for not having sex with someone you don't really know. If you are HIV positive or have AIDS, or are a widower who is only recently re-entering the dating arena, it is completely understandable that you might hesitate before sharing all this with someone you have just met. On the other hand, if you don't share your health status, have safer sex, and begin to date someone, it only gets more difficult to tell him any of these things as the... (more) http://gaysexuality.blogdrive.com/comments?id=5 http://gaysexuality.blogdrive.com/archive/4.html Fri, 06 Jan 2006 06:22:12 GMT Trust and intimacy have to be earned. Many men have met someone in a sexual situation, gone home together without having done much talking, and had good sex. If that's what you're looking for, go ahead! But if you're looking for intimacy, take a look at this article. If you are hoping to meet someone who will be a companion, or friend, as well as a lover, you will need to base the relationship on a lot more than the fact that the two of you put each other's hormones into an uproar. Therefore it's necessary to spend a lot of time talking early on. Does he encourage you to talk about... (more) http://gaysexuality.blogdrive.com/comments?id=4 http://gaysexuality.blogdrive.com/archive/3.html Wed, 14 Dec 2005 05:21:11 GMT THE 1990s We are a community that must continue to encourage, be tolerant of and celebrate diversity of lifestyles. With that said, I'm going to focus this little article on the 1990s. So here we are in the 1990s -- in the midst of the second decade of a sexually transmitted plague that has been decimating our community. There is a lot more emphasis on coupling within the gay men's community. I have written and conducted workshops for gay men on sex, dating and intimacy. These workshops regularly attract up to a hundred men, no matter what part of the country they are conducted in. I... (more) http://gaysexuality.blogdrive.com/comments?id=3 http://gaysexuality.blogdrive.com/archive/2.html Thu, 17 Nov 2005 23:57:35 GMT COMPARTMENTALIZING SEX I am not trying to devalue the importance of the free wheeling nature of sexual exploration in those years before AIDS. I do not have any regrets about anything I did. In hindsight I see that something important was missing from all of these discussions. There was little if any exploration of the fact that any of us might have feelings as a result of what we were learning to do sexually with other men. Thus, the separation of sex from feelings, and of sex from love was almost institutionalized for certain segments of the emerging gay men's community. Sexual freedom... (more) http://gaysexuality.blogdrive.com/comments?id=2 http://gaysexuality.blogdrive.com/archive/1.html Sun, 09 Oct 2005 22:41:48 GMT Gay Male Sexuality: Exploring Intimacy in the Age of AIDS Discussing gay sexuality is not an easy thing to do. However, it is very important. That subjest has been present in many web sites, and I intend to continue talking about this here! Nothing has had more of an impact upon gay men's sexuality and upon our relationships with friends and lovers than AIDS. Living in the midst of this plague has caused many of us to reassess what is really important in life. AIDS has been the impetus for many in our community to examine themselves in terms of their needs for intimacy and love. Many men... (more) http://gaysexuality.blogdrive.com/comments?id=1